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Love in a relationship!- Ankit Kumar Malode
What do you think of love? Is it two sided always?
Well, for start I must tell you every person has its own definition. We are reading writers from so much time writing on love and every one of them has their own thoughts to describe love, I have mine. Love is nothing but a feeling of togetherness, a feeling of trust, a feeling we all crave for. I just gave you the answer of my first question, now about second question.
Is love two sided always? There are many possibilities that you love someone and they don’t love you back but not always. Now getting back to my definition if you love someone you must want to be with him/her, you trust him/her and you can do anything to make that person happy. But if that person doesn’t love you back that means either they don’t want to be with you or they don’t trust you.
from these two forms of love we have another form which got very common in recent time, it’s called 'Friend zone'. The thing about friend zone is they love each other but don’t want to be together, although they are together. Confused? Well everybody is, apart from the person who friend zoned. This is the only relationship in the world which never lasts. There is a stage in life when we think of a person to stay with us in every situation whether its good or bad, we think of a person to take care of us because of our busy schedule and moreover a person to love in a way no one else can. Okay I’m talking about boyfriend and girlfriend; every boy eventually falls for a girl and every girl for a boy.
Let’s suppose a person escaped friend zone somehow, now he has love of his life but does this love worth it. They are in a relationship which is not stable maybe it will in future, but they have to go through its consequences. Consequences which tests them on the basis of trust. Maybe they have fight, maybe they have different opinion on something but the only thing which makes this relation work is love.
There are fights in every relationship and its healthy because it shows how much other person loves you, how much he/she cares for you. But if you have someone special in your life you know that whatever happens this person never going to leave me, you have someone to talk to, you have someone to share your problems which you can’t share with your family.
Relationships are important because they keep your faith in love, that special person in your life can make your life even more beautiful.
Love has no types all relations have love and they all meant same, togetherness, care, happiness and trust.
Read more about relations in Ankit Kumar's upcoming book 'Dreamy Hearts'.
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