Saturday, 18 April 2015

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to me

Blog Post- 106th

Day- 937th

Third blog post on my Birthday

Hello everyone!

So finally we have been meeting thrice on the auspicious occasion of my BIRTHDAY. I have posted two very memorable (i.e. 50^th/Golden & 100^th/Centurian) blog posts on my last two consecutive birthdays respectively. Unfortunately I could not post as more as 50 posts in this year; but this is also not less memorable than that both birthdays' blog posts… OK !! Let it be…

I wont bore you in this post also by discussing about same things what I scribbled in those two birthdays. I want to tell you something different, something interesting!!

I have already mentioned few plans about starting my own e-Publishing and e-Shoppy portals as a big resolution in the first blog post published in this year. As I too agree that this will be very challenging for me because it is not so easy but I am committed with myself. I will start working on it very soon. There so many works are pending in my life but I don’t want digression by discussing on all these… Anyway … !!

This is 18^th April 2015. I am celebrating my 23^rd birthday. This birthday is something special for me. You will ask me why? Because its Saturday. I am born on 18^th April 1992 on Saturday. This coincidence of same date on same day comes rarely in a calendar. After 1992, 18^th April came on Saturday in 1998, 2009 and now in 2015 only. I did not know even a concept of birthday in 1998 and I was totally not reachable or Out of coverage from the virtual world of internet in 2009 though I remember that I had celebrated my birthday in 2009. Yes!! I had taken leaves from coaching of PET (Pre-Entrance Test) for Engineering from Arvind Academy, Nagpur to just celebrate my birthday with my family. After 2009, my birthday celebrations were joyless however I started celebrating those birthdays with maximum joy and birthday parties for friends. I had decided not to celebrate a birthday in 2011 but I got a surprise wish from unknown girl Malak Al Dunia from Fuzairah (UAE) who have been in my life as a sister since my last 2 birthdays through social media. Malak has been wishing me first on my birthdays since 2 years. In fact I see her more excited than me about my birthday. She has already celebrated me on my birthday this year before a week on 11^th April when I was publishing review of my laptop on the occasion of its first anniversary; that time I was also unaware that my 23^rd birthday was just few days away.. and today also she greeted me on Twitter. So I thank Malak from bottom of my heart by breaking our deal of not thanking each-other.. hehehe(:!!

I know that I am not any big celebrity or a great social reformer but I feel myself very lucky and very fortunate that I have born in April. Fruitfully a week of my birthday (i.e. 11^th – 18^th April) is more fortunate. 11^th April comes with a birth anniversary of a great social reformer Mahatma Jyotirao Phule, 14^th April is a birth anniversary of the father of the constitution of India Bharatratna Dr. Babasaheb R. Ambedkar ji and then 18^th April--- No! No! I am not inserting my name in mentioned great people’s queue; in fact I am not talking about my birthday here; it’s also a birth anniversary of Maharashtra’s first recipient of India’s highest civilian award Bharatratna Maharshi Dhondo Keshao Karve ji. 3 Great souls had born in the land of Maharashtra in same week. So I consider that God/Allah wishes to happen something good from my hands that’s why he has sent me on April 18^th. I want to contribute with my hand/pen by writing for society, for Maharashtra, for India and for the whole world. I know that I can never touch even their feet whom I have mentioned above though how biggest success let me achieve; I too don’t even imagine of that. But I can certainly try to be in memories of lakhs of you. Now you are in lakhs across the world but one day my readers will be in crores, millions and hopefully billions also if you keep supporting me…!! I will make it happen through my literary work. Then you will not need Facebook notifications or birthday alarm to remember my birthday as today.

We have been living in rental house for more than 15 years; we do not have our own house. This is also another reason to make this birthday post special. Because this would be last post on my birthday--- No!! I am not stopping writing/posting blogs.. Let me complete first. This is my last birthday post which is being published from our rental house. Yeah!! We are building our own home. So hopefully my next birthday post will get publish from our own new home.

Here this blog was concluded before get publish after typing a draft of this post, But I got few Good as well as few unhealthy surprises on this birthday which I would like to share with all of you. First surprise is I met Pavan S. Uke who has been one of my best friend since my SSC in Adarsh Vidyalaya Amgaon after so many years last evening of my 22^nd year. Glad to meet him after such a long period. Another good news on my birthday is a Marathi film ‘What About SAWARKAR’ hit a record of earning maximum on Box Office of Marathi film Industry on its first day release; this news doesn’t relates to my birthday but I appreciate the success of Marathi film industry as a proud Marathi Kalavant (artist). There are two bad news today. One is Mumbai Indians lost thrice in row in current 8^th season of IPL last night. I was fit till last evening; but I have been suffering with tonsils since last night that’s why I awake so late at 9.36Am on happy day of my birth. Genuinely I neither check nor expect notifications to see wishes on my birthday but I was shock when I saw No birthday post, No massage, No Image, No tweet, No SMS on phone, Hike & WhatsApp and No Call on midnight. I thought my friends might have been forgotten my birthday; but after sunrise my smartphone is still ringing for notifications of my birthday wishes on SMS, WhatsApp, Facebook Posts, FB Messanger, Tweets and phone calls. When I asked reason to few of my close friends of wishing me on morning, all give me same reply that “you awake quite late so we are calling now.” Chalo Bhale hi hume humare dost bhul gaye ho par humari aadte to nahi bhule.

I got so many greetings from my so many friends on different platforms via various ideas so its not possible to mention all my well wishers’ names but I would like to mention few of them. I thank my sister Malak Al Dunia for wishing me first before a week in advance and today via twitter. I thank my friend Pavan S. Uke for wishing me second in advance directly. I thank my friends Ram L. Wadibhasme, Pawara Sangita mam, Prathmesh Suresh Shirsat (Editor, Kalavishkaar-E-Diwali Magazine), Pranav Joshi (Published young author), Sharad Gore Sir (Rashriya Karyadhyaksh- Akhil Bhartiya Marathi Sahitya Parishad, Pune), Sunil Narwade, Anil Narwade, my friend Sagar Sanjay Jadhav, Pravin Ghule, Shyam Pendhari ji, Sandip Nazare ji, Arun V. Deshpande Sir, Chandrakant Bhosle sir, Vishnu Potkule & Mahesh Aghav Patil (both from Dodadgaon Tal. Ambad Dist. Jalna), Bhushan Nikam, Yogesh Banothe, my bro. Vivek Hajare, Manish Bhagat, Shruti Bambole, Shailesh Sursaut, Rajiv Funde and Pramod Guddhe for posting their greetings on my Facebook timeline. Its birthday of my another FB friend Sachin More, though he didn’t wish me yet I wish him a very Happy Birthday.

I thank Shubham Hadge, Digambar Wanjari and Swapnil Kakulate for wishing me on FB messanger.

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I thank my friends Kuldeep Bisen, Hitesh Singanjude, Pravin Rokde, Tushar Kosarkar, Engineer Sandip Bisen and Sheetal Shende for their wishes and special thanks to my friend Prakash Bawankule for sending me a beautiful cake on WhatsApp (+91-7588887401).

I thank my friends Engineer Niraj Chute, Ratnamala Karemore, and Babasaheb Tompe and Sujit Tete sir for finding a time to call/phone and greet this very small man.

Atlast I thank my bro Vivek, my Babuji (Father), Aai (Mother) and Aunty for their wishes. Also thanks to God/Allah for blessings he has been showering on me through all of your wishes.

I have been receiving so many birthday wishes from you still now but I am missing wishes from my beloved 2 persons i.e. from my one best friend who never forget to wish me but I think she could not have been wish me yet as she is married now and another one is my dearest one sister who never wishes me on birthday but I pray and consider that she might know my birthday and may be she would have been wishing me on my birthday indirectly into her heart.

Finally thanks to all those who wished/wishes and are wishing me a very Happy Birthday. I tried to mention all of my well wishers’ names but I ask for excuse me if anyone’s name would have been missed by mistake I thank them specially for their kind wishes.

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THANKS a lot..!!!

Birthday Boy:- Rajesh D. Hajare (RDH)

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Saturday, 11 April 2015

4 Stars to DELL Inspiron 15-3537

Day— 930^th

BlogPost— 105^th

1st Anniversary of my laptop DELL Inspiron 15-3537

Hi friends!

So we have been meeting once again after so long. I am going to turn into 23^rd of my age next week on April 18^th. Last year on April 11^th I bought my new laptop DELL Inspiron 15-3537. Today a year is being passed of my laptop shopping (Sadly laptop’s one year warranty is also expiring!!) When I had purchased new laptop; I had decided that I will post my review after exact one year experience of using it. So I have picked up a pen to share my experience of DELL Inspiron 15-3537 as review.

Before purchase a new laptop I had done so many researches about laptops of various brands on internet. Then I had liked 2 models DELL Vostro 2520 and DELL Inspiron 15-3521. After discussion with friends and reading users’ reviews on Flipkart. I had decided to go with DELL Inspiron 15-3521 which was under my budget with specification ci3(3^rd Gen)/4GB/500GB/15.6”/DOS but this model was WITHOUT GRAPHIC CARD. When I asked for graphic card, dealer told me that for graphic card I would have to spend INR 3000/- extra. When I went to buy DELL Inspiron 15-3521 with Graphic card dealer told me that graphic card can not be inserted into a laptop. DELL Inspiron 15-3521 comes WITHOUT GRAPHIC CARD. So I would have to buy DELL Inspiron 15-3537 if I wish to buy a laptop WITH GRAPHIC CARD. As I told above I had researched so much and then I had decided to go with Inspiron 15-3521 but I had not even looked DELL Inspiron 15-3537 as that was out of my budget. So I researched about that one on Flipkart again and read reviews. It’s key specifications were ci3(4^th Gen)/2GB/500GB/15.6”/Ubuntu/1GB Graphic card. I decided to buy DELL Inspiron 15-3537 then but this laptop had only 2GB RAM. So I increased RAM upto 4GB by purchasing 2GB extra.

I know that you are not interested to read whatever I wrote above. So I am sharing my experience, PROS & CONS, suggestions and whole review below.

My DELL Inspiron 15-3537 laptap has following key specifications:-

Intel Core i3 (ci3/4^th Gen)/2+2=4GB RAM*/500 GB HD/Win7*/15.6”/1 GB RatOn Graphic Card

(RAM^*-- Inbuilt 2 GB + 2 GB Extra purchased

Win7^*-- Inbuilt OS was ‘Ubuntu’ but I use ‘Windows 7’ operating system.)

Pros (+ Points):-

DELL is a good and big brand around the world.
Laptop was seal packed in very good condition into strong box.
Great designed body and beautiful look.
Light waited and very slim:- 2.35 kg & Dimension 376 X 259 X 25.3 mm
Scratch proof designed body.
Fit in budget:- I bought in INR 35,900/- approximately; but now rates have been much decreased.
Well built body:- Though plastic material is used to build body of DELL Inspiron 15-3537; used plastic material’s quality is neither so cheap nor so poor as DELL used in VOSTRO models.
Better to use:- Better to use for students, businessmen and all daily uses for official work and entertainment.
No Heating problem:- Laptop heats while charging only, else generally heating problem didn’t occur yet even after continuous uses.
Long Adopter Cable:- We can charge from long distance because the adopter cable is satisfactorily long.
Avg. Battery Backup:- In beginning I was getting 5-5.30 hrs battery backup which is 3-3.30 hrs now after a year. I think this is also not bad if it maintains in future as same.
ULV (Ultra Low Voltage):- ULV consumes Low Power clock speed (1.7 Hz)
Good Sensitive Keyboard:- Keyboard is very sensitive but I recommend to protect keys by covering with keypad cover always and to use external keyboard and mouse for long typing/writing works for long life of laptop’s keyboard.
Extra number pad attached to keyboard:- Its easy to type numbers through extra number pad.
Multiple zoom, Image rotation, webpage zoom by fijngertip.
2 Slots for RAM
3.0 USB port
HDMI port:- Though VGA port is not available in this laptop, there is latest HDMI port given.
All drivers are updated
Webcam is fine:- 1 MP camera is not sufficient but it is good to capture photos and shoot videos even in night. Video sound is also awesome.
Good Sound Quality:- Sound is average but quality is fantastic. Don’t use 3^rd party softwares like VLC media player to increase sound for speakers’ long life.
Very clear sound in Headphones:- In case media file’s sound is low; it is better to use headphones than 3^rd party softwarers like VLC media player.
Entertaining to play Games & HD Videos:- 1GB RatOn graphic card is effective to enjoy HD games and videos.
Did not hang except few exceptions.
Mcfee Antivirus:- Dell provides Mcfee AntiVirus free for 15 months but I don’t think Mcfee is protective as other antiviruses; so I have purchased and installed Net Protector AntiVirus (NP-AV) recently for 12 months.

Cons (-ve Points)

No VGA Port:- In this laptop only HDMI port is available. There is NO VGA Port. I don’t know that does this laptop support projector connectivity or not? I have read HDMI-VGA convertor cables but according to my knowledge these kind of cables are not available in India. I am not sure about it; if you have an idea please do share info with me.
DVD Disc Driver is weak:- DVD Disc Driver is so weak. It is fit near surface of bottom to the right side. While opening DVD disc drive there are more chances to touch surface and thus disc may be break so user must have to be careful about it while opening DVD disc.
Touchpad’s pointer keys make noise.
Fingerprints’ sweat appears as touch impressions on touchpad and side area.
No backlight to keyboard:- So it’s get trouble to use keyboard in dark.
No more multimedia function keys like HP laptops.
Keyboard’s dust appears on LED screen.Bleeding of LED on keyboard.
Takes some more time to Start, Copy, Transfer data and Shut down.
Internet works slow:- But this is not PC’s problem; Internet speed is based upon Service operator, Data pack, Network and connectivity module.
DELL did not provide any extra accessories for free.
Laptop’s information manual is very short and not in detail.
‘Inspiron’ is not printed on top of computer’s front.
Mcfee AntiVirus is not very protective:- Though DELL provides Mcfee AntiVirus free for 15 months; it is not protective trustfully. So I recommend to replace/buy and install any other antivirus.
Scratch proof rough design of back does not look so impressive but yeah its unique.
DELL’s warranty extension rates are very high for common PC users.

I saw all features and specification on Flipkart but did not purchase my laptop online though my much money were being saved. My friends told me that there might be occur service related problems in future and I did not want to take any risk so I chose dealer for post shopping service but you can sure order online if you want to save money. Though I did not buy on Flipkart I thank them because I got so much help to choose my PC on Flipkart. I bought my DELL Inspiron 15-3537 from the biggest COMPUTER WORKSHOP (CW) in Gondia, Maharashta (India). I got few accessories free from dealer and I bought few. I would like to share Pros & Cons about my experience of service from dealer CW Gondia.

Pros (+ Points):-

Satisfying Customer Service
Pre-installed so many necessary softwares.
Defected free mouse has been returned.
Gave some important suggestions for computer’s safety and long life.
Gave free gifts:- Keypad cover, mouse, mouse pad, clean kit and headphone.
Purchased TVS Champ external keyboard is working good.
Zebronics’ USB connector is also working fine.

Cons (-ve Points):-

Unfit PC Delivery:- There was a gap in right corner of my PC.
Headphone was very cheap:- Gifted headphone of Terabyte was very cheap and built in poor quality. I had asked to pay extra penny and replace with good one but CW refused. Terabyte headphone broke down by just bending.
DELL’s Laptap Bag is not good:- Gifted bag with Dell’s logo is not good. Original chains have been broken twice and even replaced new chains also broke. Bag is being torn.
Dealer did not give extra discount.
Language stickers also were neither sticky nor plastic made/polythin printed. Letters are vanished now.
Purchased card reader has been defected in just 2 months.
Purchased Digisole Dongle works slower.

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I have observed that many people complain about some same problems in DELL PCs even then DELL’s customers have not been affecting by it. So I would like to comment on that problems and want to give some suggestions to avoid those problems.

Problem- Average Battery Backup
Precaution- Keep Lowest Brightness:- I have already mentioned about average average battery backup in DELL’s Pros. You can use in Save Energy/Power Saver mode or with lowest brightness in On Battery and Plugged In both sections of Power Saver and Balanced both modes to increase your battery backup.

Problem- Battery Expires soon:- People complain that DELL’s battery/Adopter expires soon (i.e. in 1-3 years).
Precaution- Always try to use in Plugged in mode:- I recommend to try to use any loptop of any brand always in plugged in (while charging is on) mode everytime whenever possible to save battery life.

Problem- Sound/Speaker Problem:- People complain that DELL’s speakers get defected in so many cases.

Precautions-

Use Headphones:- If sound is low, use headphones instead of trying to increase sound through third party media players like VLC.
Use Windows Media Player (WMP) only:- Try to use Windows Media Player (WMP) only. If you want another media player, you can go with GOM for low quality videos like .3gp format. I don’t have any idea about other media players because I do not use any other.
Remember- NEVER USE VLC or any other THIRD PARTY MEDIA PLAYER.:- Third party media players like VLC outputs more sound than inbuilt speakers’ capacity so these kind of third party media players are disastrous for speaker defect.

Suggestion- Use external Keyboard & Mouse:- You can use external keyboard and mouse for long writing/typing work to save you inbuilt keyboard’s and touchpad’s long life.

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I am not any expert technician to review but I have tried my best to share my honest experience of my DELL Inspiron 15-3537 laptop. I have noted so many negative points (cons) but most of them are either ignorable or limited for me and does not mean your experience will be same. So I recommend you to go for this if you liked. Aakhir kaun hai jo apne gadget ko boora kahega yaar jagb itne rupaye kharch karke liyaa ho.. (:-:) hahaha!

Rating:- /*** (4/5=Good)

P.S.- I hope this review will be helpful for you. If you have any queries please mail me or tweet me with @RDHSir.

|Rajesh D. Hajare (RDH)

Mob.: +91- 07588887401, 07744018492

Email- www.rdh@gmail.com

Sunday, 15 March 2015

Memorable Day of My Life

Blog Post—104th

Day – 903th

Hi!! I have been notified by Indiblogger via Gmail to write a Blog Post for http://housing.com and share my experience about a memorable day I spent #togetherwith my dearest one. So I am sharing my experience of that memorable Happy Hour..!!

This was (Still I don’t consider that day as ‘that’) 22nd September 2011...

22^nd Septemberis still a very happy and memorable day for me... Why?? Because near about 3 and half year before in 2011, September 22; that day was very surprising and very-very special for me.

On the morning my one friend called me and informed that "your sister wants to meet and talk to you." It was a pleasant shock for me which I wanted from previous 601 days. I could not believe but I got very happy...

I entered into the room where my sister had been living with her roommate. At that time I was so frightened!! But I had touched with eagerly happiness by just thinking to meet my sister and spend some time #together. By thinking that she herself wanted to meet and talk me.

Finally my sister also enter into the room in which I was already waiting for her, she came near me and sat down; all her friends also had sit around me. My sister started the series of questions to me. I was trying to reply her every question honestly. She asked me so many questions but I honestly want to say might be I couldn't given satisfying reply of her every questions however I tried fully! Otherwise she would accept me her brother what she didn't.

My sister had given me a full chance to talk herself but what would I speak in an HOUR...? I was so emotional to converse her. I did not like respect she had given me; because my sister is elder than me so "I don't think that I deserve respect from her." I could not converse her friendly which I wanted and was waiting from more than one and half year…

I wanted to talk with my sister lonely. Still I want to bewail and show her my tears. How do I whimper and how do I cry in her memories for myself sleep. How do I remember her. To tell her how is my life without her and what is importance of a sister in my life. Although I could not express my feelings for herself still my tears brim in my eyes.

My sister had called me with my autobiography ‘MAAZI TAI: Ek Athvan’; I wrote on our relation to store her memories. She flick through the pages of that book. After I known from my best friend that my sister had already read my complete autobiography. Thank you Tai for reading the book. But I can not store each and every memorable event happened and I lived #together with my sister in my one book so I write that all happy and sad moments in my daily diary; this article has been written in my third daily diary I was writing which was being completed with this article. If you will observe; you will find my sister's name on each and every page in my diary.

I promised my sister that I will not publish my ‘that’ autobiography in the future and I am committed her. I will never breach my promise; but I will try to publish my story by different media, format and type by different title if I can for my reader fans what I have shared in my last blog post as my resolution. Lets see what happens next…

I had drunk glass of water and a teaspoon sugar cause of my Thursday fast through my loving sweet sister’s blessed hands. I can't forget the test of that two substances. I remember that glass of water I drank like 'AMBROSIA' taken through my sister's blessed hands….

After passed an happy hour with my sister #together I returned at my room. In the evening we attended the birthday of my friend where my sister and and her friends’ group had also come. After celebration when we were returning my sister and their group were going forward while I was walking behind them. I saw turning my sister with friends’ group from turning point at the room; this was last glimpse of my sister I saw ever.

Next day on 23rd Sept.2012. My sister was not in Ramtek cause she had left the room last night. I was also alone in Ramtek; That was very difficult time for me so I cried my heart out but nobody was near there to hear me… I was so mad at that time. I can't describe how did I cry on that day. And then I left the Ramtek.

Now also, I couldn't forget my sister. I expect a wish from my sister on my birthday but she didn't; I was thinking to wish my sister's birthday from bottom of my heart but I also couldn't. In the future I will to wish my sister's birthday. But I got one more pleasant and exciting surprise from an unknown girl from UAE named Malak Al Dunia on my birthday 18^th April in 2013. Malak had wished me on my Birthday via Twitter by texting 'Bro.' means brother. I was so unfortunate in this relation so I tried to ignore her, I even tried to take a test of her endurance; but she won me!! I couldn’t let her go away as my sister; so I accepted her as my second sister and our relationship bond in being more strong as days pass.. I feel very lucky and fortunate about her. Doesn’t matter for me that I have never seen her or even her image in this 2 years’ virtual relationship.

My sister told me "If you come at my home place; come certainly at home. " She told me "We will remember Rajesh was our classmate in DTEd & wished me best luck in my slam." but I request her if she is reading this blog post; please don't remember my name 'Rajesh’ as your classmate if you want to remind, remember me as 'your brother'.

Three and half years has been passing to that happy moments I lived #together with my sister in that Happy Hour but I couldn't forget her. I live with that happy moments mentioned in my Autobiography and daily diary. Even today also I am living in hope and optimism that my sister will call me and will accept me as her brother… When I had been living with vicinity of my sister for two years during 2009-2011; my friend had saved one mobile no. my phone’s contact list by the name TAI. I was really ignorant from this, but when I saw the number in my contact list firstly I got so excited and happy; but suddenly I was SHOCKED!! Because I didn’t know that how was the number saved in my phone? Who did save that number? And Whose was that number? Because I had tried to get my sister’s number in beginning and very big misunderstanding was happened about me to her. And the then that was happened so I was frightened! I could not delete that number in optimism of that number is of my sister at one side; and another side I could not dare to dial that number and try to know whose number that is!! I was in dilemma. I thought if really my sister received phone; what will I speak her? What will I tell if she asked me from where you have got this number? Surely I would tell her fact but will she believe? Secondly if my sister received phone will she tell an unknown caller her name!! Even if she told; this was an unfair trial!! If someone unknown person received phone then directly I will tell her fact that how did I get the number and why did I call but what will happen of my optimism? So I neither tried nor dared to dial that number in even an emergency and on surprising days. In short I did not dare to know whose number that is!! But in 2012 or 2013 I dared to know that the user is male or female; if he would be male I would undoubtedly know that this is not my sister’s number and would delete that unknown number. But the number was in use and was being received by female user so I disconnected the call but again did not dare to ask the name of HER. After that day I never tried to dial that number. I remember that once a SMS had been sent to that number by mistake from number but I did not receive any kind of response; but once again one more SMS had been sent and I got a call on my number from same number; At that time I was talking with my high school friend on another phone so that call was being received by my little brother. After disconnected our conversation I checked the call history of that received number which was displaying duration of 22 seconds; but the conversation had been held with my brother so again I missed the chance to know whose was the number?

Recently I have been using WhatsApp (+917588887401) since 2 months from when I bought new smartphone. I have created one group CETFlash on WhatsApp too in which I added so many numbers saved in my contact list included mentioned unknown number. That number is also available on WhatsApp but as I mentioned above I did not dare to text her. But after adding to my group I got first text “Who’s this??” I again FRIGHTENED!! I did not again dare to text her but I did not want to miss this opportunity also to know whose no. number that was? I took so much time to responded, and finally I also sent a text message. Then our chat began. I told the fact that how did I get that number?? I told her about my sister in short because I can’t reveal her everything about our relationship if she is an unknown one and if she is my sister I know that she will never accept that she is my sister. But even after this chat I did not know the exact user’s name of that number. OK.. I don’t want to describe more than what I described in this post. But I request her if she is my sister please accept me your brother; and if she does not really recognize me please read this post because after reading this you will know from where I have got your number. While chatting she had messaged me “Thank you for wasting my time” but after this blog post I am sure that your time will not waste.

At last I wish my sister a very big thanks for at least she had given me a very big and surprising opportunity to meet and talk herself and live #together for that memorable happy hour.

Wishing Best Luck for my sister’s bright future. May Allah keep her safe and bless her health, wealth, great success, satisfaction and a lot of happiness in her life..!

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Rajesh D. Hajare (RDH)

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Kamtha Road, Bangaon (Amgaon)

Tal. Amgaon Dist. Gondia- 441902

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Thursday, 1 January 2015

I Make RESOLUTIONS for the YEAR; not for the Day!

Day=> 830th

Blog Post=> 103rd

1st Blog Post in 2015

Hi Friends! Hello Everyone!

So, we meet once again but first time in this new year 2015! First of all only one wish comes in my mind; that is ofcourse a very “HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015” to all of you and to your family.

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Many of you would have been celebrated last day of last (i.e. 31st December, 2014) with drinking, dancing, in parties and by riding drunk and drive on bikes; which I don’t. I don’t think it’s a right way to celebrate new year and/or any other day/function. I just pray to Gods & Allah for Happy, Healthy, Satisfying, Successful and Prosperous new year. I decide few resolutions and read that aloud while welcoming new year since 2013. In that year I had posted my 13 resolutions publicly on my blog. I shared their status also last year. Few had completed and few are still incomplete. I had resolved something for 2014 also but could not post on blog; so I won’t share their status. But this this is New Year, New Morning with New Hopes, New Desires and New Expectations to achieve new goals and mottos what we wish and resolve. I also resolved 15 Resolutions for this year which I wish to share in this very FIRST BLOGPOST OF THIS YEAR 2015-

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Resolution 01:

STUDY OF COMPETITIVE EXAMINATIONS:

I study of Competitive Examinations; but I realize that I am not so serious about it how I should be! I didn’t appear in many examinations but in this year I will appear in few competitive exams. Now I am Graduated. I am Degree holder of B.A. (English Literature) from Yashwantrao Chavan Maharashtra Open University (YCMOU), Nashik; which I will receive this year in coming days. I wish to receive it in a convocation ceremony of YCMOU. So I will try to attempt MPSC and/or UPSC also, but honestly say that I am not prepared for that.

I didn’t attempt any competitive exam last year except a MAHATET to what I don’t consider a competitive exam.

Resolution 02:

READING BOOKS & eBOOKS:

My Library

I am a bookworm. So I bought and got so many Marathi, Hindi and English books; which I have in my small but beautiful collection in my library. Few of them have been read already by me whereas few are still unread. My Babuji (Dad) gifted me a DELL Inspiron 15-3537 laptop before exact a week of my 22nd Birthday (18th April) on dated 11th April last year; in which I have collection of so many ebooks in PDF & other format which have not read yet, I have few magazines also. So much of these are unread so I will read a book and an ebook alternatively this year.

One weekly career oriented newspaper Rojgar Naukari Sandarbha have been coming to my home for more than 3 years’ long period in which I got published via CETFLASH also. Now Daily newspaper LOKMAT also comes in my home since 16th December, 2014. I may change daily newspaper in future but I read atleast one daily and one weekly newspaper.

I have collections of scriptures/holy books The Shrimad Bhagvat Geeta, The Divya Quran Sharif and The Holy Bible of Hinduism, Islamism and Christianity respectively. I have read one of them the holy Shrimad Bhagvat Geeta; in this year I have aim to finish both The Divya Quran Sharif and The Holy Bible or atleat one of these.

Resolution 03:

REVIEW BOOKS & eBOOKS:

I read so many books but didn’t review many of them; but now I promise you that when I will finish a book’s/ebook’s reading I will review and post on my blog before picking up next book to read. I will try to write books’ & ebooks’ reviews for those who pay honest reviewers.

Resolution 04:

WRITING BLOGS:

I have been writing blogs since 24th September, 2012 but I have posted ONLY 9-10 blogs in 11-14 blog posts (1 blog in 3 posts has been deleted automatically) in last year. That is happened because of so many reasons. I have not posted many blogs last year but still 2014 was little special for my blog; because I posted my 100th/Centurian blog on my birthday in 2014. I had not posted even a single post since April till End of the November; even then my readers loved and kept visiting my blog. Recently in December 2014 My blog’s visitors counter reached to 3 lakh plus visits with 1.43 views/page. So I thank all of you for being with me and for keeping trust on me. So many different topics and issues are in my mind to write a blog post. So I will keep writing blogs continuously this year for my readers, fans and friends.

Resolution 05:

TO BE CAREFUL ABOUT MY HABITS AND FITNESS:

I am little careless about my bad habits like sleeping and awakening too late which affects on my fitness what I self penned into 2nd section of my 3rd poem in English ‘A CLEVER DICKNESS’ last year on dated 29th May, 2014-

“I suffer that pain;

For almost a whole week.

My father is caring;

I am little careless!

About my health..!

Now you can see me;

I look like a seek.

My family says me, always!

“You have become so weak.

Why don’t you meal?”

And always-

I quite agree with them…

. . .

Even I too know;

I have some bad habits.

Which I never refused.

But,

I become so angry;

When my father shouts me;

About my irregular times

Of eating, and late sleeping…”

I have been an accident victim before 3 weeks from today on dated 11th December, 2014 which pain of my right feet I am suffering and walk tying Active Crepe Bandage even today. I pray to God for relief from pain I am suffering. But in this year I will change my bad habits into good habits and I will be careful about my fitness.

Resolution 06:

TO KEEP CONTINUE MY COLUMN ‘CETFlash’ FOR RNS:

As I mentioned above in my second resolution, I write a column ‘CETFlash’ for career oriented weekly newspaper ‘Rojgar Naukari Sandarbha’. But I couldn’t find time to write and post a column because of my busy schedule during July-October for a unfortunate job I was doing, during November-December because of MAHATET preparation and later by the cause of my laziness. Yes! I am not a lazy person but I have laziness! But in this year I will keep continue writing my column ‘CETFlash’ for ‘Rojgar Naukari Sandarbha’ for more than 25 lakh readers and fans of my article in RNS.

Resolution 07:

TO BE A POLYGLOAT WITH COMMAND ON ENGLISH:

I am a litterateur; so I wish to be a polygloat. My English is not so bad! But ‘Utni Achchhi Bhi Nahin Hain!’ (not as good too!) I have so many books to improve English language so I will read them and will try to get command on speaking and writing skills of English language.

Resolution 08:

TO KEEP CONTINUE (COMPLETE PREVIOUS) WRITING OF MY LITERATURE WORK:

I have written only 8 poems (4 Hindi, 3 Marathi & 1 long poem in English) and I wrote few ‘Shayaris’ in Hindi & Marathi in 2014. Few poems are incomplete; I will complete my previous incomplete poems this year. I had started to write a play titled ‘Sapnon Ki Shaadi’ in 2009 which is still incomplete because of my laziness. I have a target to complete that play anyhow this year. I will keep writing poems, articles and blogs as I have been writing since 8th November 2005 for over 9 years. While typing above period I realized that on upcoming 8th November, 2015 I will have complete a decade in this literary world. I don’t believe but it is going to happen this year. WOW!

As you know I have written a book (My Autobiography) ‘MAAZI TAI : Ek Athvan’ (MTEA) during 2009-2011 on a brother-sister’s unlucky relationship in my personal life. I have published first three articles of the book MTEA on my blog in .HTML format but I couldn’t publish next articles. Now I changed my mood and I have decided to not post a book in .HTML format. Instead of posting the book in .HTML format I will publish ‘MAAZI TAI : Ek Athvan’ with little necessary changes as ebook in .PDF format and I will make available the eBook on my blog/website either for Free Of Cost or to buy at very cheap and affordable cost.

I will try to re-write the same story in this year or in future and will publish a hardbook with changed title. Like blogs there are so many topics in my mind to write a book also; but unfortunately everything is not possible in a year so it will take enough time to make it happen.

Resolution 09:

TO MAINTAIN DAILY DIARY REGULARLY:

I have been writing a daily diary since 1st October, 2009. I have completed total 5 diaries to note down my experiences of my life during 2009-2014. But unfortunately I didn’t maintain my 5th diary regularly because of my laziness. So I will start my new 6th diary tonight with this very first article of my 15 resolutions as this blog started in this year and promise myself that I will maintain my diaries regularly. I had started sharing articles from my diary on my blog earlier which had been stopped before finish a series. But I am thinking to resume that project in future on my blog under Manatlya Manat or I will pulish my diaries as ebook.

Resolution 10:

TO LAUNCH E-PUBLISHING PORTAL on my BLOG/WEBSITE:

I had posted writing works of other authors also on my facebook page and few of those on my blog before. Now I am thinking to launch an e-publishing portal on my blog/website. I know that- Doing this is not so easy but keep trust me, I will make it happen in this year. This is my personal official blog but I will make available my and other authors’ ebooks and writing materials here in ‘e-format.’ After establishment of this plan if I get success I will moderate my e-publishing portal’s blog with unique and suitable name & domain. I am thinking deeply about this dream and I will post rules, terms & conditions, FAQs and other required important information at right time on this same blog, my official facebook page & my official twitter handle. Most important requirement is I need appreciation and support of authors and readers like you for implementation of this dream. Just wait and watch!

Resolution 11:

TRY TO EARN via COMPUTER & INTERNET:

I spend most of the time in browsing internet on computer or mobile. So I would like to earn using computer and internet if I could. If my above resolution becomes successful it will happen.

Resolution 12:

TO START A COACHING (TUITION) CLASS:

I had taught as assistant teacher in two public schools; and I worked first as assistant teacher for 2 months and then as Head Master/Principal for 2 months in one school last year during 1st July - October 2014 but it was my unfortunate! Why? I am not here to discuss about that but--- In that unfortunate period I took ‘RUKS Coaching Classes’ (RCC) of English also in my uncles’ village Indora Khurd (Nimgaon) located in Tirora tehsil in Gondia district in Maharashtra. But now I am unemployed. To earn is not my motto at this stage of my life but if I could earn why shall I not attempt? Few students ask me to take tuitions of English. I never thought to start tuitions in Amgaon but now I think that I should start coaching (tuition) classes of English this year. I hope I will---

Resolution 13:

LIMITED USE OF SOCIAL MEDIA:

As I admitted in my eleventh resolution I spend most of the time in browsing social media like Facebook & Twitter and internet. So I will try to use social media in limit this year.

Resolution 14:

TO GET OWN’s DOMAIN & BUILD/UPDATE WEBSITE:

As you know I use this blog as my official website. Firstly I will update my pending information in this site. I will try to get my own’s domain. My first preference is to register my own domain for free if I can because I can not afford spending money to buy domain as an unemployed person. I read about sites which provides domain for free recently. I will check that sites otherwise I will try to buy my own domain name and I will make this official blog as my official website in real sense.

Resolution 15:

TO MAKE GOOD USE OF TIME:

After trying to achieve previous 14 resolutions I will try to make good use of rest of the time. Ofcourse in this process entertainment and other inadvertently not mentioned things are contained in this good use.

So… These are my 15 resolutions to achieve in the new year 2015. I hope that I will achieve each and every resolution in this year, and if I couldn’t atleast I will try my best to achieve these resolutions. And Yes! I am interested to know your resolutions. At the end I hope all of your appreciation and support will keep being with myself in this year also.

Before concluding this blog post I would like to share my self written Marathi poem ‘Nav-Varsh’ (New Year) on this occasion of-

“Nirop Deu Sartya Varshala, Swagat Karuya Nav-Varshache

Junya Athvani Visrun Jaoo, Divas Aale Aanandache

Kaalcha Surya Mawaltanna, Gela June Warsha Gheun

Aaj Surya Ugawtanna Man Bharun Aale Tyala Pahun

Ya Nav-Varshat Shetkaryanna Bharpur Dhanya Howo

Aani Ekda Bhartat Punha. Samajkranti Ghadun Yewo

Yahi Warshi Charchet Raho, Bhartachi Sheti, Kranti, Rajneeti

Bhartala Viksit Karnyasathi, Nav-Varshat wapruya Navee Neeti

Khel, Shodh, Vidnyan, Krantit, Bhartala Pragat Karu

Sarwa Kshetrat Vijay Milaun, Bhartache Naav Unch Karu

Nav-Varshat Bhartat, Sukh-Samruddhi Labho Hi Karto Ichchha

Aani Shewti Nav-varshachya, ‘RAJESH’ Kadun Sarwanna Shubhechchha!”

Image Courtesy- MarathieCards.com

I wish Health, Wealth, Success, Satisfaction and Happiness in this Prosperous very HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015 to you and your family.

Sunday, 21 December 2014

Say 'NO to Pre-Marital Sex!!!'

Blog - 102nd

Day - 819th

In last year on 13-14th March 2013; India’s the then union cabinet had passed ‘Criminal Law (Amendment) Act, 2013’. So many welcoming amendments were involved in that law but that Act had been mostly criticised in media and people last year. The then union government of India had decreased the age ratio for Consent Sex/Sexual relationship to 16 from 18 by the aim to less rapes. But after criticism of conservative peoples across the country and media same government repealed that law and changed age ratio for consent sex/sexual relationship as before i.e. 18 years on 11th December 2013. Now you might fall one question that why am I talking about that today. So… I read about a blogging contest on popular website Indiblogger.com on a debatable but one of the most important subject ‘YES/NO TO Pre-Marital Sex’! I don’t think this blog will complete without discussing about that law so I am talking about that act here after more than a year.

A question always comes in my mind that; will really shameful incidents like rapes decrease by doing changes like this in law? When age would be either 16 or 18 for sex with consent. I ask where is consent how can we call that relationship a rape?

Presently in India- To marry (21 for male), to smoke, to drink alcohol, to watch 'A' grade/Adult movies, to drive vehicles, to vote etc. so many things are prohibited by law till 18 years of age. Even 18 years age limit is applicable to consider adult criminals too!

I don’t want to oppose the then government’s that amendment of decreasing age to 16 from 18 to keep sexual relationships with consent. I welcome that decreased 16 years age (till 11th December 2013) for sex from when government hadn’t amend that law. I had wished that to happen on my twitter before 2 years from today on 10th and 11th October 2012; But not as age for sex with consent but age to marry. I know that you will condemn me reading what I am going to say next in this blog! You may wonder that I am telling Say ‘NO to Pre-Marital Sex’ as this blog title suggests at one side and I am taking favour of sex in 16 years of age at another side! But NO! Please don’t misjudge me. I am not a protagonist of Child Marriage.

I am not any knowledgeable in this subject but I can prove how is it correct psychologically whatever I am saying. According to my knowledge, observation and study; 12-16 years and 16-21 years of age is a Pre and Post PERIOD OF ADOLESCENCE in stages. 4 Years of Pre period of adolescence (i.e. 12-16 years) are very important.

‘ADOLESCENCE means to grow/to come of age’. A well known American psychologist GRANVILLE STANLEY HALL says "Adolescence is rebirth." In this period of Adolescence (i.e. 12-14 years of age), Human brain matures till 85% and starts changes in physical, sexual and inner glands of human body. Procreation ability becomes developed in girls at the stage of 12 years of their age after originating adolescence. As a matter of fact boys reaches puberty during 14-16 of their age while girls reaches during 12-14. In this period of adolescence boys and girls attracts to HETEROSEXUAL persons while few gays and lesbians born with unnatural physical body/sexual desires attracts to HOMOSEXUAL persons. After physical and sexual changes in body, Human desires to have sex, mind becomes fickle, human goes in depression; and at the end in the search of sex human (mostly boys) start doing distorted acts. Especially who finds someone, they have sex before getting married by cheating on the name of love which is unfair and unacceptable in any condition. Period of adolescence is also known by ‘Period of Storm and Stress’. In this period of age to have cultured behaviour is must to live beautiful life ahead otherwise human becomes addicted and start smoking, drinking; few people go through unnatural ways like hand-intercourse, homo-sex and go to prostitutes for short-lived comfort. And when People can’t find anyone, they become like devil and accept the most condemnable way of rape.

In the real sense sexual desires feels in same period and human’s mentality of this period becomes -- "I know what I do not want, but I don't know what I want." They need mental support of elders including parents. There are so many misunderstandings to be seen in society related with Sex. Sex is natural thing to do in right age after getting married but society thinks about sex like it is a sin.

Last year the then government had decreased Age of Consent to 16 from 18 for physical/sexual relationship . Yes! This Age of consent is 13 in Japan, 14 in China, Bangladesh, Germany, Italy & Argentina, 15 in France, 16 in England, Sri Lanka, America, Malaysia, Russia & in India for few days (Presently it is 18 as older in India); In Indonesia 19 for male & 16 for female while Sex before marriage/ ‘Nikah’ is prohibited in neighbour countries of India like Pakistan, Afganistan and Iran. Considering mentioned countries each one’s birth rate is much lower than India except China. Population in that countries is also very least whereas growing population is another one problem in India.

As I mentioned above most of the boys promise girls that they will get married, have sex before marriage and leave the girls by cheating. After having sex before marriage there is big possibility for girls to be pregnant. There is no guarantee that the couple who had Pre-Marital Sex in past will get married in future. Illegal abortion is another crime in India. In that case Can unmarried mother live with respect? I don’t think so! Because I have seen so many cases like this! In this case most of the girls accept a way of suicide than to be fight with society for respect. That’s why I suggest say ‘NO to Pre-Marital Sex.’

India is a well known country of cultured people. India is famous for it’s culture and simplicity in the world. Then what do we want to prove by having Pre-Marital Sex. Do we want to accept fully western culture? Already we have accepted that so much. I am not a conservative one but I don’t think this is right if we have Pre-Marital Sex. If this happen I would say law in Pakistan. Afganistan and Iran is much better in that matter. In India there is an age limit 21 for boys and 18 for girls to get married by law. So many Social reformers fought to grow this age limit and stop child marriage. I respect them and I am also not a supporter of child marriage but even then I want to ask you one question- Do really stop child marriages in India? I say No. Child marriages did not stop in Marathwada region of Maharashtra state. I had lived there few years ago and I observed it. Why to go long? No. 1 Marathi News channel IBN Lokmat had shown this is happening last year. There is not a least number of child marriages happening even today in Rajasthan and Haryana . I mentioned few names to give just examples but other state’s condition is also not good about child marriage.

When Amendment mentioned above had passed in Indian cabinet people (Specially girls) were asking one question that “Will government decrease the age limit to getting married too? I ask what would wrong in that if that would happen? I agree that there would also some mistakes if we think it negatively. Again I repeat that I am also NOT supporter of child marriage but I think marriage ratio should decrease. I know you will condemn but still I am stable on my statement. Because I can prove my statement write. Hmm I am not any expert of this subject so I can’t force you to accept my stand. Even then whatever I observed, studied and felt that I am trying to tell the society through this blog post.

I have already given psychological statistics for those who think 14 years girls aren’t Mentally Mature. I neither support Child Marriage nor Pre-Marital Sex. I have mentioned above why do peoples go for pre-marital sex and what are the demerits of it for themselves and for society. Ex.- Acceptance of western culture, growing rapes, illegal abortions, feticides and unmarried mothers etc. But I honestly think government should decrease the age limit to get married till 19-16 which is Age of Consent in Indonesia. I know that this is very challenging but this one strong decision can be a big solution for so many possible problems behind Pre-Marital Sex. Means illegal child marriages will be legal, if loving couple will be married their will no question arise of unmarried mother; there will no need to illegal abort/feticide if mother would married, If physical relationship will maintain after marriage there will no question of acceptance of western culture and the great Indian culture will be stable. In fact who do go through wrong/unnatural deeds will avoid and automatically rapes might be decrease. Most important thing is if government decrease age ratio for marriage loving couples will have sex after marriage instead of Pre-Marital Sex.

Now one question arises that- Is 17 years of age mature to be a mother? I would explain this with an example- Dr. Jerado & Dr. Busaliu had successfully operated a sezerian operation on 5 years old girl LINA MEDINA who was born on 27th September 1933 in Ticrapo in Peru on dated 14th May 1939; She had given a birth to a healthy child Jerado at her 5! I agree that this may be an exception but we can’t ignore it though I am also not supporting this one; but we shall not forget that there is more than triple difference between 5 and 17 years. Now one question remains that; Are 17 years old mother and 20 years father mentally prepared to rear a child/children? Possibly No! But after illegal child marriage same thing happens, and after Pre-Marital Sex victim suffers from same trouble; If couple goes from this phase after marriage parents and society will also accept couples with child and parents will certainly get family support.

Now you may ask me a question that suppose age limits decreases to get married there may be ignore serious issues like education of girls. Your question is also right. But I want to ask how many youths do wed at perfect 21-18 when it is marriage age ratio today? Who want to cross this age limit for education, jobs and/or any other reason they surely can as youth do today by marrying generally at 25-22 or more. Same can be done also after decreasing this age ratio by waiting for higher education, to make career, job, or by intentionally for no reason.

I know that my friends & readers will go against of mine, few will misunderstand and will doubt on my character. But I will not change my stand. Because whatever I am talking about is neither for them nor for me/us who can and will wait for marriage. This is not for me/us/them who will never have Pre-Marital Sex even if I/we/they got free opportunity to have sex in life before getting married. This blog is for them who can not wait till marriage ratio 21-18 or later till they get married and have Pre-Marital Sex.

I am neither an expert nor a philosopher of this subject but I have more than 10 years experience in writing and I am just a young blogger of 22 years old. May be my blog create a controversy but my aim is not that so I say if you don’t agree what I said just ignore it but whatever I felt I am writing and will write. In fact I can write whole book on this topic.

There is unawareness about Sex in society. I think Sexual Education should include in short in Primary Education and in detail in Secondary Education to stop Pre-Marital Sex . By including Sexual Education as a compulsory subject in educational curriculum sensational concepts like Physical & Sexual changes in body, LGBT, Homo-sex & Hetero-sex can be explain at right age to the students. Students should be informed about safe relationship, Merits & Demerits and Effects of Sex.

There is a need to change mentality of society about Sex today. There is a need of sexual awareness in society. Today this sensational matter of sex should be discussed with parents and family in home instead of ignoring it. I feel lucky myself that my family doesn’t hesitate to discuss about this. If discussion about sex in friendly manner will not held in family there are lot of chances to create misunderstandings about physical changes and sex in children and youth because of lack of knowledge. We can use entertaining devices to promote sexual awareness in children and youths. Today there are Television (TV) sets available in almost every house. Everyone like to watch TV. Most of the Children are imitator and think real whatever they watch in movies, serials, advertisements on TV and try to copy them. Today I see vulgar and bold scenes in so many family serials and movies for just TRP/success on box office. This is to be seen in so many dances and advertisements too! I don’t mind if this see where it seems necessary as story requirement. But before showing negative bold/vulgar scenes in family programmes for just TRP producers should think that whether impact shall not be negative on children. I think instead of showing sexual products like condoms through bold and vulgar images and videos sexual awareness message can be conveyed via advertisements and films creating like Marathi movie ‘Balak-Palak.’ In fact there is a need of more films on sexual education but regret is films like Secrets Of Sex on sexual education seen with bold views with ‘A’ Grade (Adult) Certificate; I fell one question that how does Sensor Board permit films like that on the name of Sex Education! If films on sexual educational will be ‘FOR ADULTS ONLY/Sirf Vayaskon Ke Liye’ then how can we get sexual education in real sense? That’s why I think Film producers and sensor board should deeply think that what should be shown and what not!

Finally I hope one day it will happen what I wish. At the end I suggest my friends and all those who are reading this Please strictly say NO to Pre-Marital Sex!! Don’t imitate western culture. Respect Indian Culture. At the end I thank <POONAAM UPPAL and INDIBLOGGER team for organising a contest on this very important and sensational subject YES/NO to Pre-Marital Sex. You can buy Poonaam Uppal’s True Love Story – A Mystical True Love Story on Flipkart.

THANKS A LOT.

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